[الطامعة في رضا ربها]

A word of advice to the parents

We would like to remind these parents that they bear a huge and heavy responsibility in front of Allah and Judgement Day: they have prevented their daughters from covering up their modesty using the excuse that their daughters are still young.
According to the Shari'ah, when the girl starts menstruating, she has to cover up her modesty. Consequently when her legal guardians (her parents in most cases) prevent her from covering up, they commit a grave sin. Allah will interrogate them about that on Judgement Day. The All-High said:
(وَقِفُوَهُمْ إِنَّهُم مَّسْئُولُونَ) - سورة الصافات/24:37
(But stop them, For they must be asked.) " Qur'an 37:24

Also our Prophet (Blessing and peace be upon him) said:
كلكم راع وكلكم مسؤول عن رعيته.
"Each one of you is a shepherd, and each one of you will be asked about (and is respnsible for) his flock.

The father is the first "shepherd" at home, and he will be questioned on Judgement Day about each and every person of his flock. The wife is the "shepherd" in her husband's home during his absence and will be questioned about her actions with her flock.
Let the parents ask themselves about the number of young men that their daughter will tempt? How many young men will their daughter lead to perversion? Finally, how much harm will their daughter suffer on the hands of these young men?

to be continued ensha'Allah